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Good questions to think

近幾星期跟很多朋友食飯,在交談中,他們也問了些值得我思考的問題

1) Why are you so negative to your past experience? If you think what you did isuseless, why are you repeating them? Why are you still staying there?

2) If you only have one chance to choose, which one will you pick?

3) Hey, you got enough theory, did you try that out? If not, are you just trying to point fingers to others?

4) Why you always use your preception to justify the situation? It's just bullshiting...

Thx for listening to me and giving me feedbacks...

Comments

Enoch said…
Really? I think I'm more negative than you are :) But at least... you can say you tried to "rescue" but failed?

Why bother with the 2nd q? Just believe in that the one you'd REALLY picked is the best. Even if it's not, I'd like self-denial (that I'm dumb) more :p
Fa said…
Hey, kenny... thinking about the past is fine as long as you know what mistake you have made and you won't repeat it, but just regreting and blaming on yourself is meaningless, you can done nothing to rescue the past,
but you can do something which really helps at the moment.

Sometimes we should act according to our thought and knowledge, but sometimes we also need to hear our inner voice, including our concience and perception, because perception is something which gives us direction based on our experience in life as well. We need to find a balance.

Actually you got all answers in your mind, but sometimes we need courage when struggling with our egoic mind. If you keep on letting your ego dominate you, one day you will realize you have lost the real self.

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